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Talking With Children & Teens
About Hate and Intolerance
Suggestions:
Acknowledge that hate groups exist and that their messages are threatening.
Keep children and teens away from the scene of hate demonstrations or events. Find alternative and safe places to discuss the issues and voice opinions.
Let children and teens know that there are professionals who are trained to handle the situation and reassure them they are safe.
Recognize that children, especially those older than age nine, often are more aware of what’s happening in the news than parents realize.
Take time to talk about your personal reactions in age-appropriate language. It is helpful for children and teens to understand their parents’ perception of the situation.
Encourage children and teens to talk about their feelings and help them find ways to express themselves in non-violent ways.
Involve children and teens in deciding how to respond. When they are uncomfortable or outraged by a situation, it is comforting for them to voice their opinion.
Encourage respect for diversity by teaching understanding and talking in a positive way about differences.
Seek out multicultural activities, books or websites that encourage family participation.
Make children and teens aware of your disapproval if you hear them use insensitive language.
Remember that you are a role model and you can teach your child tolerance and acceptance.